A Note From Our Parochial Vicar: January 25, 2026

One of the key themes during my studies for priesthood was discernment. We learned that the etymology of the word means to sift or separate apart. An image that helps us understand this is to imagine someone searching for gold. Perhaps you have seen in Western movies or tv shows, this process which involves scooping muddy residue and swirling the contents around in a specialized pan. The water eventually separates from the sediment, which can yield precious and hidden gold. But it’s an arduous process that takes times, careful sifting and patience.

I like this image because it reminds us that discernment is not a simple task. It takes time, work and energy to find the gold, that is, God’s direction in our lives. Discernment is not an act of impulse or relying on feelings. Authentic discernment looks at a topic or issue, and sits with it in prayer, weighing the outcomes and consulting those we trust. From this place, we make a decision and if necessary, reevaluate and adjust as needed. That is how we discern, how we “strike gold.”

If you don’t know how to discern, start with prayer. Speak truthfully and unburden your heart to the Lord. Listen to what ideas move and stir you. Are they bringing you closer to God or not? Is there some increase of faith, hope or love? Or is there a movement away from these three virtues? It is essential to speak with someone whom you trust, that can help you sift through your discernment. Keep doing this until you arrive at a resolution and act on it. Then reflect and repeat the process anew.

I encourage you to apply discernment in your decisions for this new year. How is Jesus asking you with your gifts and talents, with your life story, to know and love Him better? How is He inviting you to live and share your Catholic faith?

God bless,

Fr. Ben Bray